Q: I am interested in your view on … cheating. More my question is not about the one doing the cheating but the other person; “the other woman” so to speak, or “the other man”. If this “other” person knows that the person they are with is cheating on his significant other should he or she take the initiative to end the cheat? — Or should he or she at least feel guilty, or is it not the “others” responsibility … ?
Just something I had been thinking about.
Thanks,
Allison
Q: I am interested in your view on … cheating. More my question is not about the one doing the cheating but the other person; “the other woman” so to speak, or “the other man”. If this “other” person knows that the person they are with is cheating on his significant other should he or she take the initiative to end the cheat? — Or should he or she at least feel guilty, or is it not the “others” responsibility … ?
Just something I had been thinking about.
Thanks,
Allison As the cheat-ee do you assume any responsibility for wrong doing?
Once I asked what I thought was a fairly practical question to a girl friend of mine.
“Why is that like 95% of songs are about love? Why is it that when artists sit down to write tunes, the first thing that comes to mind is the emotional experiences that occur to us while we’re in love?”
She laughed when I said this, & now that enough time has passed, I understand why. Why are so many songs about love?
I’m a stripper in Queens, NY. I don’t have a boyfriend & I don’t have kids. Not even a cat or a Goldfish. I’m an adventurous cash strapped girl trying to keep my life interesting while working for instant dough.
Society as a whole looks down on strippers. You could say I don’t fall into the mold of a stripper with a rough background or history of sexual abuse. I have a degree from a top 50 college & come from a predominantly white liberal upper middle class town. One would ask why the hell I do it. Why not just bar-tend or waitress for cash to supplement an entry level 9-5er with a meager salary of 30K give or take a couple thousand?
The first reason I strip is the cash. The Ten (11) Stripping Commandments
A friend of mine had recently decided that she either wanted a loving, supportive relationship or to be truly happy alone. I asked her if she would be happy being by herself for the most part, but maybe having a couple people who she was “friends” with, but had some sexual chemistry & hooked-up with when she saw them & maybe even spent a couple boyfriend-girlfriendy days with when they were both in the mood. What other types of relationships could we be in?
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