Q: I am interested in your view on … cheating. More my question is not about the one doing the cheating but the other person; “the other woman” so to speak, or “the other man”. If this “other” person knows that the person they are with is cheating on his significant other should he or she take the initiative to end the cheat? — Or should he or she at least feel guilty, or is it not the “others” responsibility … ?
Just something I had been thinking about.
Thanks,
Allison
Q: I am interested in your view on … cheating. More my question is not about the one doing the cheating but the other person; “the other woman” so to speak, or “the other man”. If this “other” person knows that the person they are with is cheating on his significant other should he or she take the initiative to end the cheat? — Or should he or she at least feel guilty, or is it not the “others” responsibility … ?
Just something I had been thinking about.
Thanks,
Allison As the cheat-ee do you assume any responsibility for wrong doing?
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Dear S&C,
My bf and I are looking to find some porn that we can both enjoy together. At first this idea was very exciting for me (It was my idea) but as we started looking I realized that we can’t agree on one. In all of the porn we have come across the girls either seem really bored or are way too overly excited and fake. Is there porn out there that involves couples that are both enjoying it and have a connection? Or am I doomed to wonder the internet forever in search of some holy grail that doesn’t exist?
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Hey Guys!
Thanks so much for the timely and helpful response! It has really helped to calm my nerves about this whole sex thing for the first time. I do have another question I would like your opinion on. Since I’m new at this, I was curious about “talking dirty”. I’ve seen a little bit of this in porno movies, but never done it myself. Does this type of behavior enhance sex? Do you have any examples of some introductory phrases I could use?
Thanks guys. Looking forward to another helpful response.
Todd in Grand Rapids What is the best way to start talking dirty?
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I casually dated a guy about three years ago one summer when I was in college. To this day there really wasn’t anything negative about our casual relationship – he was cute, sex was great and he was smart but there also wasn’t anything spectacular. So, after a couple months as the summer ended, naturally, so did our relationship. Fast forward three years today, to my surprise, I have an e-mail from him. We haven’t kept in touch and I don’t even have his number anymore. What did Natalie’s mystery man say?
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