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How many people have you screwed over? Most of the time when a relationship or a hookup ends, we usually tend to blame one party for the demise. The most common reasons are cheating, boredom, & bad timing. I think we’re just far too obsessed with the idea of winning & losing in our culture that we’ve actually gotten to a point where the only thing that matters is whose fault the end of a relationship is. Just like I’ve written about before, the only thing that matters is how we handle our relationships & their continued successes or failures. The number of people you’ve fucked over, just like the number of people you’ve slept with, is pretty inconsequential.There are a number of ways that you can fuck someone over & they come in varying degrees of tears, heartbreak, & overall sadness. Sometimes we aren’t sensitive. Sometimes we are selfish & take what we believe is rightfully ours without asking for it from those whom we love. Sometimes we say what we don’t mean. Sometimes we cross the line, whether it be in bed, with another person, or face to face with our partner. There is one thing that usually happens when we score one in the “I definitely fucked that person over” column: we hurt someone’s feelings.
